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My Reverse Bucket List & Why You Should Make One Too

I recently went on a pinning spree! My Pinterest was filled with all kinds of interesting pins about mental health, mindfulness, journaling, and meditation. And it was just what I needed!

Why You Should Make a Reverse Bucket List: A great way to kick off gratitude journaling. | Finding Mandee

Honestly, I’ve had a bad attitude lately. Everyone and everything gets on my nerves. I see the flaw in everything – even the things that I normally look forward to and enjoy.

It’s so bad that I’m tired of myself. I get on my own nerves, because I KNOW that I’m being ridiculous. But I really can’t seem to break this cycle of negative thinking.

Instead of just mindlessly pinning these things, I took the time to actually read each article. Along with a lot of hippie-dippy garbage, I also found plenty of legitimate research about the benefits of gratitude journaling.

The Research

This article from Harvard Health Publishing stated that people that wrote about their gratitude for 10 weeks were ‘more optimistic and felt better about their lives’.

Another study found that writing in a gratitude journal improves sleep, which has a significant impact on not only mental, but physical health.

This study found that keeping a gratitude journal caused study participants to report 10% less physical pain and 16% fewer physical symptoms.

Also, patients with hypertension had a significant decrease in their systolic blood pressure after using their gratitude journals just once a week.

Do your research before restoring an old camper trailer.

Researchers at the University of Berkeley found that gratitude “produces better mental health by shifting one’s attention away from toxic emotions, such as resentment and envy.”

This is just a fraction of the research that I found on this topic. It’s an undeniable fact that expressing gratitude in written form, whether in a gratitude journal or letters has many physical, mental, and emotional benefits.

Thus, I decided to start my own gratitude journal.

What is a Reverse Bucket List?

I thought the best way to begin gratitude journal would be to do a Reverse Bucket List.

A reverse bucket list is where you write down your achievements. It’s pretty much writing down the things that you have already crossed off of your bucket list.

After writing my reverse bucket list, I discovered that there were many achievements that never made it to my bucket list. Nonetheless, these achievements were a major part of my life and are some of the proudest moments I have ever known.

my reverse bucket list

My Reverse Bucket List

My reverse bucket list is full of my personal achievements, such as finishing my degree. It also has some traditional bucket list travel items, such as the Empire State Building. Yet there are also personal highlights, such as becoming a mom.

No matter how deep or trivial these ‘accomplishments’ may seem to some, they are the what I consider some of the best days of my life. Looking back on these events makes me happy. These events fill me with gratitude and appreciation for all of the wonderful opportunities I have been blessed with. And that is the whole point of this exercise!

Here is my reverse bucket list, so far:

  1. married my soul mate
  2. became a mom
  3. finished my degree
  4. traveled outside of the U.S (3 times!)
  5. snorkeled over the Meso-American reef
  6. helped Lyvi overcome autism
  7. visited 5 national parks
  8. drove the same vehicle for more than 10 years
  9. paid off ALL of our debt before turning 30
  10. learned another language
  11. lived in 4 different states
  12. took my mom to Vegas
  13. stood on top of the Hoover Dam
  14. started a blog (& kept it going!)
  15. saw the tulip & daffodil fields in Skagit Valley
  16. taught myself how to refurbish furniture
  17. hiked through a real jungle to see a waterfall
  18. worked a meaningful job (disaster relief)
  19. saw the cherry blossoms in Washington D.C.
  20. overcame postpartum depression
  21. have been both a SAHM and a working mom
  22. stood on the Empire State Building & saw the Statue of Liberty
  23. toured our nation’s Capital

Writing down the highlights in my life (so far), was as much an exercise in gratitude as writing thank you notes. I think making a reverse bucket list was a great way to kick off my foray into gratitude journaling.

I plan on writing down things that I’m grateful for a couple times a week and I’ll keep the blog updated on my progress!

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