About

behind the blog

how it all began

In 2017, I was documenting our life during my husband’s second hardship tour. He was in Honduras for 15 months, and I was working my way through a deployment bucket list, sending care package, and decorating a house on a shoestring budget.

About Me

hey, i’m mandee

mama. army wife. homebody. displaced floridian. maker. amateur traveler. lover of lists, books, beaches, plants, hikes, + Jesus. just trying to find my way through this chaos we call life.

mandee at a glance

coffee order

iced mocha latte

favorite destination

home

fave book genre

historical fiction

small town or big city

small town, always

Can’t live without…

my family

fave music

country, 00s pop

On my bucket list

long european vacation

next move

fort rucker, al

frequently asked q’s

After posting my Deployment Bucket List and care packages on Instagram, a friend sent me a message and told me that I should start a blog. At the time, I didn’t even know ‘regular people’ could do that! On the couch one night, I googled ‘how to start a blog’. I went down the rabbit hole and now we’re here.

It’s a boring answer: from an online domain name generator. When I started the blog, I really wanted the name ‘Life Interrupted’ (I would have settled for ‘Wife, Interrupted’), since it was perfect for military life, but both of those were copyrighted. And since I started the blog on a whim, I typed my name into a ‘Domain Name Generator’ and clicked on Finding Mandee instead.

It started out of means of necessity. I had a house, but nothing to put in it. And the only thing I could afford was thrift stores, flea markets, and hand-me-downs. So, through a LOT of trial and error, YouTube university, and my dad, who is a contractor and jack-of-all-trades, I figured out how to make my old things nice again.

Everyone always wants to know this! Yes, I work on an as-needed basis, doing home inspections after natural disasters. I am also a licensed realtor, certified paralegal, and have a bachelor’s degree in psychology. I sometimes take part-time jobs at different duty stations, as long as I can still be available for my kids. As a military family, there is no ‘village’ and many times I’m the only one in the house with a driver’s license!

The short answer: Florida (specifically the Panhandle). The long answer: the woods north of DeFuniak Springs, but not quite in the communities of Paxton, Gaskin, Darlington, or Glendale. Although, depending on who’s asking, I’ve claimed all of those as ‘home’.

let’s be friends!