
On August 27, 2015, I posted to Facebook:
“Sooo…Heff was FINALLY given an assignment & I know that this is the Army & plans can change at the drop of a hat, BUT I am wayyy too excited for next February when we should leave for HAWAII!!!!”
By October 6, 2015, my Facebook status read:
“Heff’s orders came in. Honduras is NOT the same things as Hawaii! Saying goodbye to my husband in March for 12 months.”
Though I seemed to have a healthy amount of skepticism in the first post, I was SURE that we were headed to Hawaii. I had researched (and even stressed about) the high cost of living on the island, sought out things to do/places to go, and looked up the cost of plane tickets for trips home. In my mind, I was already living the island life.

I was crushed when my imagined island life was ripped away by stupid Army paperwork. The ‘orders in hand’ said Honduras. It started with an ‘H’ but it was NOT the same thing.
And since it was a hardship tour, we couldn’t even go with him. The kids and I were going to be left behind.
I was depressed.
Yet, being a {little} honest here; I was also jealous.
He was off to live in a foreign country for a whole year! A whole, child-free, year to roam across Central America and explore Honduras in his free time. A whole year in front of him to see places that we’d only seen on TV or travel blogs. Heff doesn’t even LIKE to travel! I, on the other hand, LOVE it!
This was the epitome of unfair.

I stewed on this news for a couple of days. I whined and I cried.
Then, I put my big girl britches on and decided that I wasn’t going to let this year pass me by, being a mopey, jealous little baby. Just because I was moving back to my familiar hometown didn’t mean that I was going to sit around bored.
Thus, the Deployment Bucket List was born!
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Making The List
(Side note: I’m aware that Heff wasn’t technically ‘deployed’, but Hardship Tour Bucket List just didn’t have the same ring to it or have a hashtag on Instagram.)
This 100-item-list consisted of places I hadn’t been to before, things that I’d been meaning to do but never got around to, and things to develop personal growth. There were items on the list that could be completed in one day and items that would take extended amounts of time. There were also some ‘freebie’ bucket list items. (These were mostly holiday traditions and small luxuries.)

Was It A Success?
Did I finish the entire list? Nope.
Did I finish most of it? Heck yes!
Am I glad that I did it? Most definitely. (And I plan to do one each time he leaves in the future.)
The Deployment Bucket List was a HUGE success! It was fun and motivating, not just for me, but for the kids too!
I posted a picture of the list on Facebook, in addition to printing it out and putting it on our deployment wall. Every time we were bored or had free time, I stared at it until I found something that we could do. After each item was complete, I posted a picture on my Instagram and crossed it off the list.

The Ultimate Deployment Bucket List
So, here it is! It’s pretty random and not organized in any way. But I hope it inspires you to create your own deployment bucket list.
send Heff 12 care packageslearn Spanishdo something I’ve never done beforego to the beachhave a sleepover with Lexyread 12 bookssave moneymake at least 1 trip to Hondurasspend the day in Pensacolawatch Lexy’s cheerleading competitionsgo to churchdo 3 Pinterest craftscolor Easter eggs- train for a 5k
finish Lainey’s baby scrapbook- read 1 classic piece of literature
- host a craft night
get a pedicurevisit a state park I’ve never been to before- run 365 miles
mow my own grasswatch some fireworksmake a countdowncelebrate Lyvi’s 4th birthdayskype with Heff- see a play
- do 3 pinterest hair tutorials
go trick or treatingdo a big projectfind a show to binge-watch on Netflix- do more yoga
- explore South Walton communities
read all of the Harry Potter bookshave my parents over for dinner at least 6 timeswalk Lainey to her 1st day of Kindergartenfeed the ducksbuy a new outfitplant flowersgo swimming at the springs- read The Chronicles of Narnia to the girls
make 12 new recipes- take a bubble bath with candles
make a chore chart for the girlsre-decorate Lainey’s roomgo geocachingdo a Bible Studygo paddle boardinghave a ‘spa night’ at homevideo the girls seeing Heff for the first timego to a festivalmake pumpkin rollsmake a gingerbread houselearn how to highlight & contour with make-upreconnect with an old friend- go to the gym
celebrate Valentine’s Day- take the kids to Wonder Works in Panama City
adopt a Christmas Angel- train for a 10k
go to the moviesvisit a town I’ve never been to beforemake a welcome home signdo 12 random acts of kindnessgo on a scavenger hunt- finish Lyvi’s baby scrapbook
watch a movie long distance with Heffcelebrate Lainey’s 6th birthdaytry 3 new restaurantsvisit a museum- complete a Pinterest fitness challenge
- host a game night
go fishing- clean the truck before Heff comes home
spend time with my siblingswatch a paradeget a massage- master 1 difficult yoga pose
- get a concealed carry permit
get a tanvisit a nature preservedo some nail artthrow Heff a welcome home party- take the girls’ picture in my wedding dress
spend time with my grandparentsgo on a date when Heff is home on leavemake a deployment wall- lose 40 pounds
spend the day in Mobiledo some Bible art- sew something
grow some kind of foodchange my own oilpaint somethinghave a pity partygo to a flea markettake kids to cut down a real Christmas treego on a picnicthrow Des a baby showertake a road trip with mom- do some target practice
What did I miss? What are you adding to your Deployment Bucket List?
Check here to see how I made my list and for help writing your own Deployment Bucket List!




